If you would have asked me almost 15 years ago if there was anything I was thankful for when my son J was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, I probably would have looked at you with aghast. I was overwhelmed and so surprised at the diagnosis. Yet, now that I’ve lived with my son’s autism for well over a decade, I look at it differently. I’ve come to be thankful for this autism journey full of challenges and rewards. During this season of Thanksgiving, here are just five of my reasons to be grateful.
1. I celebrate my son’s uniqueness from autism
If my son didn’t have autism, he wouldn’t be who he is. Having autism makes him think differently and view situations with his own unique perspective. I love that he makes me stop to look at sunsets. He notices so many details that other people miss in everyday things. His special interests always have his own take on them, and he always wants to share his interest with me and others. Is life challenging because of his autism? Sure, but each of us have our own battles that we face. His are related a lot to autism and ADHD. They also come with their rewards.
2. I love the community of parents of autistic children I’ve found
I have become part of the community of parents of autistic children in my local community, and I am so thankful for them. They truly get me, and we all need that! They understand my frustrations, and they celebrate the small victories of my son with me. I sit on the board of directors for the Autism Community Connection, and I love the difference we are making for families affected by autism in our county. I also enjoy interacting and hearing from readers of this blog! My whole purpose for starting Autism & ADHD Connection was to help other parents feel they are not alone on this journey and to provide valuable resources to help them with their autistic children.
3. Autism has helped me be more aware of the needs for those who are neurodivergent
I’ve learned so much about neurodiversity through this journey and about the needs of those with differences. My approach to people is different now than in my younger days. I’m much more tolerant of others and open to looking at things from their perspective. I think our world is a better place with the ideas, creativity and thoughts shared by so many.
4. I learn something new every day about autism
I consider myself a life-long learner, and I enjoy education and development. I can honestly say that I learn something new almost every day about autism, how our brains work and the impact of autism on families and individuals. I love that I can share what I’m learning with other parents, caregivers, teachers and advocates through my blog and participation in autism groups.
5. Autism has become part of my purpose
As I’ve been on this journey and learned more about autism, I’ve been driven to share with others my learning and do what I can to help others. Our autistic children have so much to offer this world. I want their lives to be the best they can be. For parents and caregivers, we can have tough days as we deal with school problems, behavior issues, the overwhelming paperwork, so many appointments and more. Then we see our children hit those milestones, get an A on a school project, make a friend and other successes that parents of neurotypical children almost take for granted. I want to do everything I can to help, and the desire to help those affected by autism has become part of my life’s purpose.
What are you thankful for this year related to autism? Leave a comment so that we can share and encourage one another on this journey. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!
